LE CATCH

This past week in freezing NYC boiled down to getting dressed--and getting dressed again and again. I spent more time shimmying in and out of layers than actually being outside in them. I tried on outfits not just for the day, but for future days, future dinners, future moments—trial-running looks in pursuit of that new Chanel-in-the-subway kind of slightly undone, perfectly imperfect on-the-go style (I'm executing last pic with this and these). The uncontrived vibe that winks rather than shouts, and somehow, in the dead of winter, feels like a warm breeze. I cranked up the chic heat in this navy pinstriped blazer by Gwyn, these structured Madewell jeans (every.single.day), this Attersee shoulder-baring jacket (above), this Apiece Apart cardigan with a Parker Thatch bag strap used as a belt (why not?!). For future festivities: this Christopher Esper sequin frock (below, it's actually insane!), more Maison Mayle charm necklaces and a button-neck coat, below, and this Metier carry-all.

My carry-on suitcase is all wool and faux fur for New York's bitter cold, but my accessories are actually doing the heavy lifting. This week I've been relying on my belt (below, also this one), faux fur collars (mine here and here but this one is a super wow), a look-twice clutch or bag, eyeglasses that are more than just readers (also these!), studded shoes, an elegant necklace, a brooch on a coat or a blazer, even sweaters wrapped around my neck like scarves (or a sweater with an attached scarf!). Chanel's show in the subway on Tuesday night proved that accessories can outshine a whole wardrobe--i.e, those red long gloves with a grey knit (I'd try with even a classic sweatshirt!) Bottom line: pack light, accessorize boldly!

I told myself today would be different. A shopping cleanse. A purposeful step away from my laptop. And then… the new drops rolled in. And the “just extended” sales (this, this, and this!). And suddenly I’m right back where I started: coffee in hand, scrolling like it’s my cardio--only today I am in cold and rainy New York City, feeling like a whole new winter wardrobe is in order! It's basically Temptation Tuesday over here. Surprise, surprise, I’m not fighting it, either. Check out these compelling finds: the H&M embellished blazer, the faux fur scarf coat, the fluffy knit, the fur-sleeved And Other Stories sweater, the zipper--trimmed Banana Republic pullover (40% off!), the shaggy sleeveless top, the pink made-for-layering anorak and the crinkly Reformation blouse.

While everyone else seems to have snapped back into real-world mode, I’m still floating somewhere between leftovers and lounge sets. Maybe that’s just my subconscious attempting to justify the inevitable click, click, add to cart that today Cyber Monday brings. Yesterday I attempted a “big” closet clean-out, above, which, if we’re being honest, translated into me standing in front of my mirror wearing two different shoes—one studded Mary Jane, one practical ankle boot. A metaphor, perhaps, for my current state of being: half put-together, half still on holiday time. As I stared at the piles and racks, it occurred to me that my closet is truly insatiable—no matter how much I organize, edit, donate, or discipline myself, it always seems to want more. Honestly, not unlike my appetite this weekend. Apple pie? Yes. More brioche and butter? Absolutely. I was a bottomless Thanksgiving of a human being. So will I indulge today? Yes. Proudly. If my closet demands feeding and the sales are this good, who am I to deny destiny? Cyber Monday picks include: Adina Reyter's one-day-only archive sale (plus 20% of new pieces), My Theresa's flash sale (Khaite bag!, Toteme trousers, Chloe flats and this), Cos (cute scarf!), Tuckernuck (black cardigan), Tory Burch (so much!), Nordstrom (that $50 tote bag!), Shopbop (great, cute, yes), and, um, new Zara today too (below). Plus: the Madewell jeans I wear everyday (see above and below) are $50!!! The white leather corset belt I'm wearing above is also on sale! Happy Cyber Monday!

While I’m still full from yesterday’s everything—the cooking, the pies, the cleaning up—I’m also riding that unmistakable post-Thanksgiving surge: the mix of wanting to move, recharge, and, of course, pounce on the best Black Friday steals before they disappear into the internet abyss. This morning’s agenda? A long walk with green juice (the most civilized way to undo a slice of pecan pie), followed by an hour of hitting tennis balls to remind my body it’s not, in fact, made of gluten-free stuffing. And because I love a little balance, I’ll be pairing those endorphins with some expertly targeted browsing—today’s deals are actually really good. Think: my scarf-accented Apiece Apart, above, that friends have been complimenting, or the one my niece pinched from my closet, below, (along with the dress she wanted too); these fun tasseled flats, the jeans and easy Mary Janes that are everyday wearable (mine below at 30% off) or even the decadent pull-on leather pants (above, or these for $84!). P.S. Even my eyeglasses are buy one, get one free! I'll be digging into the most coveted beauty staples that almost never go on sale (Substack with more beauty revelations coming today or tomorrow). Black Friday is basically the universe whispering: go for it. Access all of my personal discount codes here!

There’s a certain luxury to Thanksgiving—whether you’re the one orchestrating the whole delicious production or simply showing up with an eager appetite. I genuinely love this holiday no matter what side of the kitchen island I’m on, because it always circles back to one thing: gratitude. A big, beautiful, overflowing gratitude circle—from my table to yours. Today, in between baking pies and making stuffing, I’ll be popping into the Black Friday sales here and here—because it would be downright silly not to dig in. I will show you one of my latest niece-approved Chloe scores in an IG Story later, however, I am now tempted by this non-sale piece. Please count on me soaking up LA's 70-degree-plus sunshine with family and friends, and exercising it all off on Friday morning with this Pvolve gadget (already obsessed and will gift one to my sis). Meanwhile, I’ve already started prepping my hair—not just for Thanksgiving, but for the foreseeable future with this IYKYK routine. One more thing: For those who eagle-eyed my new engraved Shylee Rose heart necklace, in the photo below, and inquired about a discount code, it is BF15. You can find my brown cashmere perfection here. Wishing you a warm, joyful, gratitude-filled holiday—no matter what side of the island you’re on.

Running around in the midst of pre-Thanksgiving chaos whittles down to two things: (1) I have zero traffic tolerance left, and (2) my clothes must do all the work. Luckily, the easy things—great tees, throw-on blazers, well-fitting jeans and shoes for 10,000 stylish steps. And let’s be honest: a miracle-working concealer to hide the fatigue doesn’t hurt either. I love clothes that magically make me look like I had a plan and layering that turns errands into… slightly chicer errands (recent high-performers for me: the $88 J.Crew button-down, below, these, and this). It’s low-lift dressing with a high return, which is basically the only math I do this week (okay, and computing this Black Friday Edit, too!). P.S. Other things making life feel good right now: new cookware that somehow makes roasted tomatoes taste (and look) like something out of a trattoria (see proof on my IG Stories), and my 16-year-old niece staying with me and “borrowing” things from my closet (this and this) and vanity (this!). The unspoken validation? I’ll take it all, thank you very much!

It’s officially sale season—and some of the best ones, in my opinion, kicked off today (here, here, and here). But this day also marks my version of a closet sale, just with the blessed access of the internet: the pieces I’ve traveled with, worn on repeat, plus the chosen items Coco always tries to “borrow indefinitely” are now up for grabs at steep discounts, including (all below) the jeans I wear pretty much every day (that are now priced under $100!), my go-to ballet slippers, the Doen bandana blouse (actually so much discounted Doen), the Tory Burch dress bags and shoes (Staud boots also on sale!), my "Everything Shirt" by Sold Out NYC and studded belt (and jeans again!), these made-for-walking low-heeled Le Monde Beryl boots (that I wore non-stop in NYC), and this by Aligne barn coat (it looks suede!). Decadent yet on sale desirables I'd LOVE to add to my closet: this Givenchy LBD, this Isabel Marant trench, this Burberry fringed scarf jacket, this barn coat by The Great and this stunning Rabanne bag. P.S. The assortment of primo designer bags on sale on My Theresa is OH MY! Saks is also staging a robust sale (crazy amount of Chloe and Ulla Johnson). And, how can we skip Amazon and the plethora of no-brainer gifts?! Seriously, it would be silly not to shop today. Just saying...

I get asked almost every single day about my Adina Reyter necklaces — truly! People stop me to ask where they’re from, how I layer them, and I’m constantly getting compliments. I love mixing things up with different charms, pops of color, beads, and sparkle to constantly create fresh combinations. And right now they’re all on sale (20% off at checkout), which rarely happens (like, once a year). It’s such a good chance to invest in pieces you'll genuinely wear nonstop and keep forever. Here are some of my favorite stacks--including my stay-on lariat and charms (this, this, and this). There is limited inventory, just FYI! Shop the Black Friday sale here!

People! In case you haven't noticed Black Friday has officially moved to the Friday before Thanksgiving. Read: TODAY! I’m calling it Pre-Game Friday. Perfect for warming up shopping muscles--and giving thanks for the deals ahead of tackling the feast! To save you scrolling time, here are some highlights: Amazon (duh) is deep into 20% off mode, which means early scores for my boys (this) along with Thanksgiving prep upgrades (this), and, oh, a little something for me (cool dupes, below). A Piece Apart is 30% off sitewide, which means the cutest, chicest knits, above and below (P.S. Procured BOTH!) Asos is also serving up almost ridiculous steals: like the tie-waist sweater for $42 (use the code LAYERS), this pinstripe coat and the funnel-neck long-line teddy (pictured). Then there's Margaux and Madewell (I'm sporting both, below). The Madewell black patent flats look very Alaia--but are 40% off-along with the straight-leg jeans I have in every shade and pretty much wear every day. Speaking of jeans, The Outnet has tons of denim at just over $100 bucks (yes, please). Pistola coming in hot with bestselling jeans on sale, too, with Aureum belts (up to 75% off!) and cuties (brown blouse, below) from Sandro to go with. Need a holiday party dress? Got you covered here. Personally, I'd like to wrap myself up in a wool Schoolhouse blanket (25% off), curl on the sofa (or down here) and shop this Pre-Game Friday before the holiday frenzy truly begins!